I miss my dad

This was the last thing he said to me... ever. He gave me advice through Facebook. This was our way of communicating since we hated to talk on the phone because it was a hassle. Yeah, I'm ridiculously lazy when it comes to the phone. Anyway, I wanted to immortalize this if/when his account gets removed and my chat session gets archived. It was advice about my fiance and I when we had our first break. This coincides with her first night job. Anyway, the fiance's name has been removed to protect the public... or something like that.


June 18th, 2013 -
Stuart, when they start saying things like that, it is not good. I don't know <your fiance> that much, but I think she is great girl, that pattern however, is more common than most people would like to think. You are both very attractive, which in some ways makes staying a couple more difficult to stay together until the end of time. I think a common mistake though is if for one party to give up every thing in hopes of working it out, usually the relationship ends anyway. I hate giving advise for relationships because each couple is different, but if I was you, I would not try to keep the relationship, if you really know inside that your beating a dead horse. Many times when one person says "I think your right, its time to go our seperate ways" when other the party agrees with the other person, after awhile he or she realizes that they made a grievous mistake , if on the other hand if you split and right away she adjusts, well it was the right thing to do. Is it hard? When you break up with someone that close, it feels like all is lost and someone just ripped out your heart and flushed it. These type of things, you will never forget, and the pain is awful, but to try and keep a relationship with someone that knows it is over, is the WORST. I been through quite a few of these triangles and it never gets easier, I hope I never have to do another.